Wedding Planner Checklist

The following checklist is spread out over eight time periods, starting from Nine Months (or earlier), down through the day of the wedding.
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(Also view the B.C. marriage requirements)

Nine Months and Earlier

  • Announce your engagement.
  • Select a date for your wedding.
  • Hire a professional wedding consultant.
  • Determine the type of wedding you want:
    location, formality, time of day, number of guests, etc.
  • Determine a budget and how expenses will be shared.
  • Develop a record-keeping system for payments made.
  • Consolidate all guest lists: bride's, groom's bride's family,
     groom's family, and organize as follows:
                1. Those who must be invited.
                2. Those who should be invited.
                3. Those whom it would be nice to invite.
  • Decide if you want children among your guests.
  • Select and reserve the ceremony site.
  • Select and reserve your officiant.
  • Select and reserve the receptions site.
  • Select and order your bridal gown and headpiece.
  • Send engagement notice and photograph to local newspaper.
  • Buy a calendar. Note all important activities: showers, luncheons, parties, etc.
  • If ceremony or reception is at home, arrange for home or garden       improvements.
  • Order passport, visa or birth certificate, if needed for
     honeymoon or marriage license.
  • Select and book the photographer.

Six to Nine Months Before Wedding

  • Select flower girl and ring bearer.
  • Select attendants' dresses, shoes and accessories.
  • Select and book caterer.
  • Select and book reception musicians (or DJ).
  • Schedule fittings and delivery dates for yourself and attendants.
  • Select and book videographer.
  • Select and book florist.

Four to Six Months Before Wedding

  • Meet with your officiant about wedding counseling services
    that are available (or required) for your church or temple.
  • Start shopping for each other's wedding gifts.
  • Reserve rental items needed for ceremony and reception.
  • Finalize guest list.
  • Select and order wedding invitations, announcements, and other
    stationary such as thank you notes, wedding programs, and seating     cards.
  • Address invitations or hire calligrapher.
  • Set date, time and location of rehearsal dinner.
  • Arrange accommodations for out-of-town guests.
  • Start planning your honeymoon.
  • Select and book all miscellaneous services, i.e. gift attendant, valet parking, etc.
  • Register for gifts.
  • Purchase shoes and accessories.
  • Begin to break in your shoes.

Two to Four Months Before Wedding

  • Mail invitations. Include accommodations choices and a
    map to assist guests in finding the ceremony and reception sites.
  • Maintain a record of RSVP's and all gifts received
    and send thank-you notes upon receipt of gifts.
  • Select bakery and order cake.
  • Order flowers.
  • Select and order decorations.
  • Select and book transportation for wedding day.
  • Check marriage license requirements.
  • Shop for wedding rings.

Six to Eight Weeks Before Wedding

  • Determine hair style and makeup.
  • Schedule to have your hair, makeup and nails done the day before the wedding.
  • Finalize shopping for wedding day accessories such as
    toasting glasses, ring pillow, guest book, etc.

THE Week

  • Pick up wedding attire and make sure everything fits.
  • Do final guest count and notify caterer.
  • Gather everything needed for rehearsal and wedding day
    (coordinator has practice train, bouquet and emergency kit).
  • Review the schedule of events and last minute arrangements
     with coordinator who will contact all service providers.
  • Confirm honeymoon reservations and accommodations.
  • Pick up tickets and travelers checks.
  • Finish packing your suitcases for the honeymoon.

The Rehearsal Day

  • Arrange for someone to bring accessories such as flower
     basket, ring pillow, guest book and pen, toasting glasses, cake
     cutting knife and napkins to the ceremony and reception.
  • Arrange for someone to return rental items such as tuxedos,
     slip and cake pillars after the wedding.
  • Provide each member of the wedding party with a detailed
    schedule of events for the wedding.

The Wedding Day

  • Give the groom's ring to the maid of honour.
  • Simply follow detailed schedule. 
  • Relax and enjoy your wedding day!!